<p>Philip Gourevitch''s unforgettable modern classic <i>We Wish to Inform You That Tomorrow We Will Be Killed With Our Families </i>opened our eyes to the 1994 genocide of Rwanda''s Tutsi minority: close to a million people murdered by their neighbours in one hundred days. Now Gourevitch brings us a staggeringly vivid and intimate exploration of how killers and survivors live together again in the same communities, grappling with seemingly impossible burdens of memory and forgetting, denial and confession, vengefulness and forgiveness.<br><br> A fiercely beautiful literary reckoning, <i>You Hide That You Hate Me and I Hide That I Know </i>is the culmination of twenty-five years of reporting on the aftermath of the slaughter. The book takes its title from a stark Rwandan adage that speaks to the uneasy trade-offs that reconciliation after near-annihilation demands. Since the genocide, Rwanda has engaged in the most ambitious and sweeping process of accountability ever undertaken by any