<b><i>NEW YORK TIMES </i>BESTSELLER • The stars of the social media show <i>The Ellises</i> and hosts of the Webby Award-winning podcast <i>Dead Ass with K&D </i>share the core pillars of their relationship as millennial lovers and parents that have allowed them to thrive.</b><br><br><b>“Staying married in this day and age takes a whole different mindset, and this book gives an intimate and honest look at the inner workings of their strong union.”—Gia Peppers, award-winning journalist and host</b><br><br>After twelve years of marriage, twenty years together, and four kids, Devale and Khadeen Ellis have been through a lot. They’ve loved their way through a long-distance relationship, financial instability, parenthood, Khadeen’s near-death, and their near-divorce, chronicling their day-to-day life with their boys online. After much trial and error, they hit upon one surprising, essential truth: If you’re looking for a healthy relationship