<p><span>Breaking up is hard to do. Whether you''re breaking up with a bad habit, a life you know, or your first boyfriend. But we all have to do it. It''s just one of the many sucky things about growing up. Some of us do it better than others. I do it badly.</span></p><p><span>Wade Phillips shattered Lisa McGinty''s heart in Year 10 for no known reason. One minute he was the perfect boy-next-door boyfriend, star goalie on the soccer team, and future head prefect. The next he was like a different person altogether, dumping Lisa and systematically making his way through every girl in our year.</span></p><p><span>By Year 12, he''d made it through most of them and was on to the year below. He''d miraculously made Head Prefect and was somehow still on the Soccer team, even though he put more effort into partying.</span></p><p><span>Lisa and I were used