<p><b>Is there a gap between how you¿d like things to be and how they are?</b><br><br>Most likely there is, and it hurts. It may be a small gap or an enormous ravine, but that gap is the primary cause of pain and unhappiness for a lot of people.<br><br>What if you said ¿F**k It¿ to the idea of how your life <b><i>should</i></b> be and found peace with the way things are? That¿s going to shake things up and take the edge off your pain and discomfort way more than any quick fix could.<br><br>But being at peace doesn¿t necessarily mean being peaceful, and it certainly isn¿t being passive; it means embracing life in all its colours.<br><br>Instead of constantly trying to change our lives, ourselves, or the world around us, just say ¿F**k It¿. This is a radical message that can create radical shifts in your perception of life, just as it is.</p>